TalkShop's Corporate Solutions for LQs
A number of love-related articles have been
circulating in the Internet. I can’t help but wonder which one of them is right
and is the most effective. Some would claim their advices came from experience.
After all, experience is the greatest teacher. It is equally true that
experiences vary from one individual to another, but established and proven
techniques and methods about communication more often than not would give us
more precision and accuracy in dealing with spats.
Here are 6 corporate-love solutions that can help
your relationship grow stronger each day:
1. Content
development and delivery. Do not fret. It only means that you have to pause for
a moment, before rebutting an argument. It also means watching your tone and
the way you deliver your arguments. Remember, harsh words stir up anger. So
carefully choose your words. If you are patient in one moment of anger, you
will escape a hundred days of sorrow.
2. Humor.
A light touch of humor can help you break the ice. It doesn’t mean that you are
not taking things seriously. Being civil, calm, and light-hearted can help you
deal with problems more rationally and can even help you realize that whatever
that is you and your partner are fighting about is not a big deal after all.
3. The
power of non-verbal communication. Body language, gestures, and proximity are
frequently used metaphorically in movies to show affection that can’t be written
in words. The same is true in real life. Two of the five love languages are at
work here. You can use the power of physical touch and do acts of service to
woo your partner.
4. Visual
aids. There was not a period in history where audio-visual presentations were
very much appreciated and lauded than now. Posting a couple of your holiday
photos or doing a montage of photos and video as a present or make-up gift for
your partner will be very much appreciated.
5. Going
before a panel of experts. It is always wise to seek wisdom from your parents
or your friends who have been through the ups and downs of preserving a
relationship. Pray for wisdom and encouragement to execute your plans well. You
have to admit that there are problems that you can’t handle. Have an open and listening heart and be
receptive to criticisms.
6. Managing
Entropy. There is just a handful of information that we can take in. There will
be moments when you would doubt yourself and your confidence will slowly
dwindle. But take heart. Everybody fails at some point. The more important and
pressing action to do about it is to reflect on it, manage your emotions by
praying and being honest with what you truly feel and ask for grace and
empowerment so you can change your ways and improve on your relationship.
True love is an unconditional commitment toward
an imperfect person. You work on it; you put your
best into it for your partner’s highest good, but this will often
requires sacrifice.
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